We’re all playing our own game, some of us just don’t realize it.
Moreover, we’re all playing one main game and many smaller, side games within the main Game, our life.
I’ll go in to details about this another time, the nuances are enough to cross the eyes of the hardest of hardcore seekers among us.
And, if you’re going to DIG with me, it’s all info you’ll need but we ain’t “there” yet.
An inner Game played between “You” and your identity.
The point of the Game is to figure out what it takes of us and from us in order to live in the perpetual state of:
To feel as good about myself as I can when I’m by myself.
It seems simple, and on the surface it is… it also seems counter-intuitive to much of what we’ve all been taught… it also sounds really fucking selfish.
Answering that question, regularly, making adjustments where needed to get back into that state, answers ALL the other things…
From who we are.
To what we’re about.
To how we show up in the world.
To the impact we do or don’t have on the world and the other people in it.
Answering this one question, “What do I need to do or want to do that will allow me to feel as good as I can about myself when I’m by myself as possible?”
Is the “ticket.”
Working to constantly answer this one question sorts out all areas of your life, from your relationships, to your finances, to your health, to your connection with whatever you consider to be “the most high” the “holiest of holies” – here’s a hint dude, that’s You.
Figuring out how to answer that question, moment by moment is what solves for
“I don’t know what to do, how to do it, or where to start, and my life isn’t quite what I want it to be…”
and all the other typical statements people make about their lives when they feel like…
“it’s good, it’s great if I’m honest, but it feels like somethings missing, something feels off.”
It’s in you dude, not out “there” somewhere.
And no, I’m not talking about “finding yourself.” Or “helping yourself” or “developing yourself.”
I’m talking about establishing a relationship with yourself and learning how to play the Game of your “self.”
(It’s an inner game… played between you and your identity.)
The way we do that is to learn how to play our own Game the way only we can, our OWN way.
The Game: To become the best version of ourselves, for ourselves, and to be THAT person for the world.
Playing this Game, for that purpose is how we get everything we want, materially, emotionally, spiritually, and psychologically.
If you want it, you can have it. But not by chasing “the” answers out there somewhere… you’ve got to find your own. Those are inside of you.
Yep. For many of us that means dealing with some shit… facing some things we’d rather not… and as scary as that may seem, it’s nothing compared to the magic of living into who you really are.
You can be the person that is, does, has everything you want for yourself.
And you’re the only person standing in the way of that. It’s not all rainbows and unicorn farts, but the vast majority of it is fucking amazing.
All you gotta do… Is go through yourself to get it.
The way you do that?